We attach ourselves to others and their opinions of us because we don't have a strong sense of self

personal brand personal growth Jun 14, 2023
We attach ourselves to others and their opinions of us because we don't have  a strong sense of self

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Recently I’ve been going through a MAAAASIVE initiation where I’ve been forced to look at where I’ve been leaking my energy and how I can reclaim my POWER.

I learned something LIFE CHANGING recently:

The reason why we attach ourselves to others and to their opinions of us is because we DON’T HAVE A STRONG SENSE OF SELF.

What ends up happening when you don’t have a strong sense of self is you don’t trust your own inner knowing and so you’re constantly looking out at what others are doing/creating and you get lost and stuck in comparison.

This first started showing up in my relationship. Instead of sticking to my own path, I attached onto HIS PATH and I lost my way. Then it trickled into the business, following the path of countless other coaches.

I had to stop the pattern and choose to focus my attention INWARDS instead of outwards.

When I finally got clear on my PERSONAL BRAND and got clear on MY UNIQUE PATH, everything changed and business became lighter and so much fun again. 

♥ I started attracting dream clients who aligned with my values and felt like soulmates.

♥ I became HAPPIER and started Romanticizing my life more and focusing on ME (Self love ERA!) and bringing in ALLL the feminine energy vibes.

♥ I created a Business Model that matches my lifestyle and allows me spaciousness and time freedom

♥ My identity & Self Concept shifted and I started Manifesting like crazy (a new villa, money, house swap to Sydney) It was like everything just worked out and I received my desires with ease!

Your Personal Brand is not just your personality or the fonts and colors of your IG feed. It goes SOOOO MUCH deeper than that.

Your Personal Brand is made up of your:

✔️ Purpose + VISION for the next 3-10 years

✔️ Your Beliefs + Values and what you stand for

✔️ Your X FACTOR and what makes you stand out as compared to others in your industry doing the same thing as you

✔️ What makes your soul happy internally and what lights you up OUTSIDE OF the business

✔️ Your Self Concept and how you view yourself and how OTHERS perceive you

When I started doing the inner work on my self concept and built a stronger sense of self, doubled down on my Personal Brand, my entire reality changed!

Alchemizing your Personal Brand is THE KEY to success in your business! 
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Are you feeling a bit bored with your business + with your content lately?  

Maybe you’re lacking passion and excitement? Maybe your engagement is lower than usual? Or you’re finding it harder to sign clients consistently?

I FEEL YOU! I have been in this season of blahhh before and I’m here to light you up again and bring you back into the ECSTASY of your business again with a PODCAST EPISODE, YAY! 

It's called, How to know it's time to start focusing on your PERSONAL BRAND 

In this episode I’m going to be diving into:

→ Why the most important thing to focus on in 2023 should be your PERSONAL BRAND 

→ How to know it’s time to start focusing on your personal brand

→ Things to focus on when growing your Personal Brand

→ How you can STAND OUT amongst others EVEN when you don’t have a “niche.”



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